MISS BESS'S TRAINING IS NOT ALL BAD
Now I was taught to not judge people and you've probably gotten a wrong
impression about Miss Bess. It was not all sex and punishment, if you leave
that aspect of the relationship out it was really a good thing.
She took me shopping and bought me the most wonderful lingerie you could
imagine. Now most young girls get white and pink cotton bras and panties with
little flowers on them, not me. She shopped at only the best department stores
and shops. Victoria's Secret, Givanachi, Vassarette, Nordstoms, Neiman Marcus
and the like. Normally no one buys that expensive lingerie for a young girl, or
even a teenager except for a few pieces, since you tend to grow out of them so
fast.
Not all of them were sexy at first but as I got older they became more so and in
any event they were NICE believe me when I say I was the envy of every Jr. High
and High School girl in my gym classes. I had french cut panties, thongs, and
ALL of them were color matched with my bras, that is they were always purchased
in a matching set and HAD to be worn that way. Now I know most women get
dressed in the morning and do not purposely match their bras and panties but I
was TAUGHT to and still do to this day.
It was a punishable offense to be caught with a miss match, even if I was
wearing jeans. Now Mrs. Walters wasn't as pleased with these selections but
except for a few comments to me she never made much of it. I did have some
plain, that is sturdy, cotton panties and regular bras for sports and such but
they were still expensive. The down side to such expensive lingerie is that it
has to be hand washed so every Sunday morning I'd wash what I'd worn that week
and lay it out to dry in my bathroom, the Walter's were off on Sunday so I
didn't have to worry about Mr. Walter's seeing them or Mrs. Walter's raised
eyebrows.
Of course my clothes were purchased at all the proper places, they weren't all
flashy and sexy, at least not the ones I brought home, but expensive and again
not something that you purchase all of your daughter's cloths in since you grow
out of them. As I outgrew the cloths she had me offer them to Mrs. Walters,
who always took them, so someone else could get use out of them
When it came time to start wearing hose it was again only the best, now bras and
panties that cost upwards of $30 and more each at least have a long life but
hose!!!!. The normal ones you purchase at a store such a Leggs and such last
longer but are not as sheer. Well Miss Bess made sure I wore ONLY the best, my
god at anywhere from $18 to $25 a pair you don't really get much use out of
them. If you weren't careful you didn't even get out of the house without
running them so most women don't wear the real expensive ones everyday.
I learned to keep two or three in my purse at all times because if Miss Bess
found me with a run it was not particularly pleasant. Of course it wasn't only
panty hose, she made sure I had thigh highs and stockings with matching garter
belts and bras. Miss Bess made sure if the garters and bras were not the same
color as the hose they were at least properly color coordinated . She was quite
a stickler that I dress properly even if no one else would see. Even to this
day I generally buy the expensive ones though on occasion I have conceded to
wearing "normal" hose for work.
As for makeup I was tutored by a professional makeup artiest, no playing in
mom's makeup and smearing it all over my face. Nor was I taken to one of those
women that work at a department store.
I was taught the proper way to apply makeup, how to choose the proper colors for
my complexion. Makeup is different for different occasions and for different
times of the day and I was taught how and when to wear it properly. Now it is
good to know this but at times it was a great deal of trouble to sit and do my
makeup for a dinner engagement, then told to wash it all off and do it for work
at an office, or for a casual lunch then remove it all and apply the proper
amount for a Sunday brunch, your face gets sore from all the touching and
rubbing but I sat through my lessons and practiced my makeup skills until Miss
Bess was satisfied.
Then again I was VERY popular when a big date or prom or such came up, even in
college. First thing was I had the BEST makeup you could buy and second I knew
how to put in on properly. So my friends anyone they knew would always be
welcome if they needed help. The only draw back was that most of the time they
would have to bring their own makeup as all mine was for my complexion and it
didn't go well with a blonde or red head. They didn't mind bringing it but if
it was only second rate then I would grumble that for all the trouble they could
at least buy some good stuff.
It was really the same with all that was taught me, hair grooming, how to walk,
how to dress for various occasions and what hair style would look best. Miss
Bess also made sure I had proper cooking lessons, dancing lessons and training
in judo, karate, kick boxing and boxing. Now that I thought was strange but she
advised me that I needed to be able to take care of myself.
Yes, Miss Bess did take advantage of a situation to gain a sexual advantage on a
young girl, but then she did provide me with a great deal of other things. Of
course I did enjoy it with her, at least most of the time.
